Virtual Holiday Grief Group for Couples
Grieving Together, Differently
A Holiday Grief Group for Couples After the Death of a Baby or Child
Virtual • Separate Texas and Oregon cohorts • 3-hour gathering + 1-hour integration • Maximum 5 couples
You can love the same child deeply and still experience their death very differently.
One of you may want to say your child's name and include them in every tradition. The other may need distance from reminders just to get through the day. One may want to talk. The other may become quiet, stay busy, or try to hold everything together.
These differences do not necessarily mean one of you loved more or that your relationship is failing. But when neither person feels understood, different ways of grieving can begin to feel like distance.
You don't have to grieve the same way to stay close.
CHOOSE YOUR COHORT
Separate couples groups for Texas and Oregon
The Texas couples cohort is currently forming. The Oregon couples offering is not currently scheduled, but you can join the Oregon interest list to be notified when future dates are announced. The three-hour couples gathering and one-hour integration meeting are included in the $695 investment.
Texas Couples Cohort
Virtual • Texas
- Couples gathering
- Sunday, November 8, 2026
- 1:00–4:00 p.m. Central
- Integration meeting
- Sunday, November 29, 2026
- 6:00–7:00 p.m. Central
- Group size
- 3–5 couples
- Maximum 10 people
- Investment
- $695 per couple
Oregon Couples Cohort
Virtual • Oregon
- Status
- Not currently scheduled
- Group size
- 3–5 couples
- Maximum 10 people
- Investment
- $695 per couple
This Oregon couples offering is not currently scheduled. Join the interest list to be notified when future dates are announced.
Both partners enroll together, and both meetings are part of one connected group experience.
Because psychotherapy takes place in the state where a participant is physically located, participants must attend from the state attached to their selected cohort. For the couples offering, both partners must be physically located in the selected state.
A few hours to be with grief as a couple.
This is an experiential gathering for couples, not a support group where you narrate the details of a death to a room. You won't be asked to compare your grief, or to explain your relationship to anyone outside it.
Together we'll use grounding, reflection, and quiet experiential practice to make room for the child you're missing, and for the way each of you carries that.
A one-hour couples integration meeting follows the gathering, so what opens between you has somewhere to land.
Who this is for
- A couple in which one or both partners are carrying the loss of a baby or child that feels louder during the holidays
- Partners who grieve at different paces or in different ways, and want to stay close through it
- A couple who can use a structured, held space together
Different rhythms of grief don't have to become distance between you.
What's included
The $695 investment covers both partners and includes:
- One three-hour couples gathering
- One one-hour couples integration meeting
- A private digital couples companion
- Preparation information
A required couples consultation is $40 per couple. If the couple enrolls, the $40 is applied toward the $695 total, leaving $655 remaining.
YOUR PARTICIPANT MATERIALS
Grieving Together, Differently: A Couples Companion
Your investment includes a couples companion created for this experience. Some pages are for private reflection, while others offer optional ways to talk together about memory, difference, closeness, support, and what each person may need during the holidays.
Partners are not expected to complete the pages together, arrive at the same understanding, or grieve in the same way. Private writing remains private unless someone chooses to share it.
This resource is here to support your experience, not to measure your progress. Nothing is submitted, graded, or required to be shared with the group.
Format & logistics
Virtual, with separate cohorts for couples located in Texas and in Oregon. The Texas cohort is available only to couples who are physically located in Texas during the gathering, and the Oregon cohort only to couples physically located in Oregon.
Each cohort is a small closed group of 3 to 5 couples, a maximum of 10 people. The couples gathering is three hours, followed by a one-hour couples integration meeting. Maximum 5 couples.
This offering is currently open by interest list.
Full fee details are on our Fees & Policies page.
Privacy in the group
I'm bound by professional confidentiality and its legal exceptions. Couples are expected to respect one another's privacy. I can't guarantee that another participant will maintain confidentiality, so please make thoughtful choices about what you share. Detailed disclosure about your child or how they died is not required.
Meet Your Facilitators
Sasha Flores
LCSW-S · PMH-C · RYT-200
Sasha Flores, LCSW-S, PMH-C, RYT-200, is a trauma therapist licensed in Texas, Oregon, Washington, and Colorado. She creates protected, thoughtfully paced spaces for couples navigating grief that does not fit neatly into ordinary conversation.
Yvette Davila
Collaborating Clinician
Yvette Davila, LCSW, MSW, is an experienced therapist who works with adolescents, adults, and older adults navigating anxiety, depression, and other mental health concerns. Her approach is individualized and draws from evidence-based and relational practices, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), culturally sensitive care, Gottman Method couples work, Motivational Interviewing (MI), mindfulness-based approaches, Family Systems, Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and EMDR.
Yvette brings a collaborative, thoughtful presence to her work and joins Sasha for select groups, workshops, and intensive experiences.
Healing Orchid Wellness & Counseling, PLLC
Yvette joins Sasha for the Texas cohort of Grieving Together, Differently. Her collaborative, thoughtful presence helps hold space for couples carrying the loss of a child during the holiday season.
Yvette Davila is an independent clinician with Healing Orchid Wellness & Counseling, PLLC, and collaborates with Sasha Flores Therapy for this offering. Participation in this group or workshop does not establish individual therapy with Yvette.
Questions
You can grieve differently and still grieve together.
If you and your partner are carrying the loss of a baby or child that gets louder this time of year, you can join the interest list. I'll reach out personally when a cohort is forming.